alright I have talking to win,prosperity,self-esteem generator,and creating sparks...I wanted to get some ideas from people who have used these for getting women...I would like some suggestions as to what to set my purpose for listening to the paraliminals as?

I haven't used creating sparks because I don't have that "one woman" I'd like to be with right now.So I was wondering what other kinds of purposes and goals I could have in mind for using creating sparks?