Hi Osokin,

Remember, you have a volume control on the each headphone AND on your cd player/stereo. Turn the cd players' volume up a little more until it is sufficient in your right ear. You will notice that your left ear volume will need to be adjusted down a bit to feel comfortable. Make the adjustment.
My headset, if anything, feels loose if I pull the headphones down (NO BENDING). They're made to be pulled in one direction. Never go against that direction. Play with them a little before a playing session. They're pretty neat I think. I have a substantial hearing loss difference in my right ear compared to my left. Using these phones allows me to hear BOTH voices clearly and in comfort. I'm sure they'll do the same for you too! Hope this helps! --- Mike