Good day to you too, eh ;-) Thanks Shawn...

one of the first things that I would like to work on is attracting a great relationship.. Have been single by choice for almost 3 years now after my divorce.. meeting lots of people.. just not the right girl.. to the extent that I am not even interested in going out any more....

or is it better to take a comprehensive overall approach and let the relationship thing fall in place on its own ?