Sometimes it's difficult to express one self. I know one person who has all the best intentions and care, but still this is hurting the other person. In this persons it's programmed into the subconcious mind, poor self esteem and negative self-concept. She's making extremely good progres now, its possible to change and every now and then there is already evidence that this person creates synergy and good feeling in others. These are my assosiations on this, there is plenty of books. The one that comes to mind right now is Maximum Achievement by Brian Trazy. It made a difference in my life.

Eric

[This message has been edited by Eric_G (edited January 30, 2004).]