1. Since I'm not familiar with the nature of your anxiety (how you experience it) and since you ask whether Deep Relaxation might be the right choice. I will assume that the anxiety is more of a tension than a can't act anxiety. So my recommendation would be Deep Relaxation.

2. Sales Leap for public speaking and confidence would be my first choice since Sales Leap addresses Self confidence when speaking to others while making presentations. Talk to Win would be my second choice. Where confidence isn't so much an issue but saying the right thing is.

3. Sounds like you're trying to adopt some positive habit. - New Behaviour Generator.

4. Self - Esteem Supercharger. You mentioned kids with Health problems. You could use that one as a family and I recommend this on in lieu of Anxiety Free if you get Deep Relaxation. If you've opted for Anxiety Free, not Deep Relaxation. Get the Living the Law of Attraction.

AlexK