in one of diamond fengshui's newsletters it mentioned using 'fire' element in the love/relationship corner. something like pictures in red frames, a pair of red candles or photos of couples in front of a fire place. my question is, how about people who belong to the 'wood' and 'water' elements? using fire/red things will be harmful to wood and water people cuz obviously fire burns wood and evaporates water.
personally, im the 'wood' element and anything red is harmful for me. when i wear red shirts i tend to get sick more or hurt my hands/feet. the newsletter also says that without 'fire' there'll be no spark or chemistry. so i've been trying to figure out this paradox...
any ideas lol?
