Such fabulous answers to the sometimes cloudy topic of doors to the home!
As you probably well know, it is best to orient the directions of the home from the door that the builders intended to be your front door. It sounds like you have activated according to this fact.
Another way to approach the subject is to involve your kids in the feng shui of the home. They may have fun with creating their own activation cards and getting involved to the degree that it would affect them. A parent can do their child's feng shui up until the age of 12. Your teen-agers may respond well to creating their own goals and cultivating the feng shui of their own spaces. This may help them consciously take into account what door is best for them as well.
All the best!
Kat
