I've just listened to this interview with Jeddah Mali and its totally cleared up my confusion
http://intocc.net/2011/09/an-interview-with-jeddah-mali-3/There was a question on how should we live? And she so perfectly describes that we must allow the expansive nature of our being to Imbide our thoughts which will then Be naturally expansive harmonious and beneficial.
she goes on to describe how We must surrender, have faith and trust in the nature of our being and to try and stay in the present moment.
