Uniquesoul,
Do you find you are quite serious most of the time and that she is too? To be irresistable is to be light-hearted. Flirting is a very light-hearted game. Shock her, stun her. Say you'll just be friends but flirt like crazy. You said she falls in love at sudden and unpredictable events. She's given you a big clue. Flirting is quite unpredictable and sudden most of the time. Learn to flirt without giving gifts and paying for dinners etc. Tease her don't please her. If you can do all this then you know you're getting closer.
[This message has been edited by Grant (edited May 30, 2005).]
