I just listened to the free Diamond Feng Shui course a couple of weeks ago and I decided to start with cleaning and decluttering room by room. I love the results. BUT I now have a major problem. Everytime one of my kids or husband clutters or otherwise messes up an area that I just spent precious hours cleaning and decluttering I get sooo angry with them. I feel like I just traded mental chaos and stress in for anger... not really the result I was hoping for. Anyone have an advice about this? Do I just need to get over it and happily clean up their messes day in and day out or is there something better I can be doing to actually get them to either clean up after themselves or have them not mess things up in the first place?