Hi Defcon83
A thought - have you considered studying the Resiliency course. It is extremely worthwhile, & the paraliminals are magic!
Regard it as a synergie learning method for coping with life's problems. I quite sincerely use the word synergie, because you have the experience of two people who have combined their skills into creating something helpful for those of us who at somestage have had major hiccups in life.
Good luck Soldier Boy 
Caitie
