Hi ipc33!
I understand exactly what you mean. Despite our highest intentions, we never know when we might be meddling with the ideal growth path that someone is on, as we don't generally have an eagle eye view of the bigger plan.
For that reason, when I am setting an intention that involves someone else (or even for myself, when I'm not sure which way is forward), I always add "for the highest good of all." That way you are not interfering with the potential growth that might be inherent in what may seem to be incredibly heinous circumstances.
This allows me to hold the space for it to be different, shed whatever light I can, but not detract from the perfection that lies underneath it all.
With love,
Wendy Greer
