Hi Hypnolad!

Anyone who purposefully advances or contributes to a co-dependent relationship would probably benefit from the “Self-Esteem Supercharger, Belief, Finding Treasure” and “Gratitude.”The more recognition there is of your own perfection, the less interest there will be in perpetuating co-dependency.

Remember that paraliminals are driven by a clearly stated intention, so if you build the desired outcome, based on how you would ideally want the relationship to be, i.e. open, respectful, compassionate, etc. into that intention, you can use both paraliminals you mentioned to good effect.

All the best!
Wendy Greer