Forums IMPORTANT: PLEASE READ Diamond Feng Shui General Question about individual rooms

Hi, I am new and just getting started. I am in the process of moving my bedroom/office around to fit my best directions, but in doing so, my boyfriend feels a little out of sorts and has asked to make the SW bedroom his man cave before I do anything further. It appears he will have a tv and computer in this room so it will be a main room for him. He is a 7. I am an 8.

In trying to decorate the room I am wanting to make it my Success Best direction (for #8) with blue and gold and rose (for relationships), but what would be best for this room?

1) Do I decorate this entire room based on the general space feng shui chart: SW corner, relationship, pairs, earth/fire, and only consider one direction?
2) Do I make this room decorated in all 9 directions, and something representing each direction in each corner? (It will essentially be a small living room but only 10x10)
3) Do I treat it like a best direction (success for 8) or his best direction (health for 7)? or Do I consider the best directions for both? and just make sure all 5 elements are represented?

I am still trying to get my head wrapped around this. I am in the process of activating my best directions in my bedroom/office and putting a cure in the other 4 directions, but I feel like I should be doing this same concept for each room. In the manual it says to only do this for the main areas where you will spend 3 or more hours a day in, like bedroom, office, and living room. And not to do the bathrooms or kitchen. But how do I treat the other rooms that are not used on a daily basis? My south bedroom is 100% painted blue (came this way) and I use it for storage in my business and it is full of empty boxes. Using the same logic above, this room would not be used for best directions, but is it the room representing Fame based on the bagua? or a small bagua with all directions considered? Since it is not a best direction for me or my boyfriend, do I put a cure in this room at all?

Thank you for your help. It is much appreciated.

Heather